Memories

“To know who you are as a person, you need to have some idea of who you have been.” The Story of The Self

Memories make up our life experiences. In the Guardian article, The Story of the Self, the writer asks, “How many more of our memories are a story to suit the self?” Lose your memory and you lose a basic connection with who you are. When we look at how memories are constructed by the brain, the unreliability of memory makes perfect sense. The French Philosopher Michel Foucault says, “What we post on social media shapes the logic and experience of the act itself.” As he compares social media to being in a virtual panopticon. Facebook encourages us to share our thoughts and post something. Every so often, it saves your memories and shows them to you again.

Is this for our benefit?

We tend to filter out what we don’t care to remember. If being constantly visible online affects us psychologically, what does reliving memories do? Bad memories would be like reliving that trauma constantly. In the Black Mirror episode, The History of You, Liam experiences what it is like to be able to access his memories at any time. As a matter of fact, throughout their relationship they access memories when fighting in order to prove to the other that they were right. Liam grows obsessive and jealous when he notices his wife seemingly happy talking to Jonas, a former acquaintance according to her. He keeps replaying his wife’s interactions and focuses in on her facial expressions. He notices her body language and sees that she looks happy when she is talking to him and that she laughs at Jonas’s jokes, even when they aren’t funny. It takes a psychological toll on his mental health when he realizes his wife has been cheating on him and their daughter may not be his. In a drunken state, he confronts Jonas and his life has spiraled out of control. He even remarks, “this isn’t me.” In the final scene, he replays the good memories of his wife before removing the chip implanted.

At first, it might seem kind of convenient to have a way to access everyday interactions with people. I would never forget a name again and have the ability to recall certain conversations. I would never need to make a list to remember to pick something up at the grocery store. At what point would we just give up and completely rely on technology in order to access our brain functions. Currently, I use my iphone as a planner and a way of keeping all of my information in one place. I have not taken the Bored and Brilliant challenge because I feel too reliant on my phone. Not as much for social media, but for organization. I would find it difficult to keep track of everything otherwise and am aware that I may forget something. In many ways we are already reliant on technology for basic cognition. Without it, I feel like I would forget things I need to accomplish for the day.

How The Memory Works

How good is your memory without the use of technology?

This is an article on WeChat. The US has proposed banning it.

I found these two paragraphs interesting:

For most Chinese people in China, WeChat is a sort of all-in-one app: a way to swap stories, talk to old classmates, pay bills, coordinate with co-workers, post envy-inducing vacation photose, buy stuff and get news. For the millions of members of China’s diaspora, it is the bridge that links them to the trappings of home, from family chatter to food photos.

As a cornerstone of China’s surveillance state, WeChat is now considered a national security threat in the United States. The Trump administration has proposed banning WeChat outright, along with the Chinese short video app TikTok. Overnight, two of China’s biggest internet innovations became a new front in the sprawling tech standoff between China and the United States.

3 thoughts on “Memories

  1. I agree with you when it comes to the fact that it’s hard to keep track of all the things we’re supposed to be doing without a device that we can track it with. I would never remember when I had appointments, when assignments were due, or even everything I’m supposed to pick up when I went to the grocery store if I didn’t have something to remind me. However, I have also had times where I’ll make a list on paper of the things I have to get at the grocery store and then I end up forgetting it at home. Do you think I forget my cell phone? Of course not! I think that speaks to the fact that our memory is not as horrible as we’d like to think it is, it’s just about what we have trained our memories to prioritize. You’d think because I was going to the grocery store, my memory would prioritize the grocery list over making sure my phone was in my pocket. I think that concept is something that we all need to work on.

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  2. As I read this blog I start to remember some thoughts I had when doing the readings. The one specifically I recall had me thinking a lot was the article from The Guardia The Story of The Self. As I read through it it reminded me of an event in my life that I felt there was confusion in terms of how I remember it opposed to how someone else might remember a specific event. One memory that came to mind was that of years ago when I was probably in kindergarten. I remember my mother, brother and I were leaving our apartment building and as my mother locked the apartment door, I recalled pressing the button for the elevator and when it opened there was this space in between the door and i’m not sure what possessed me to slip my hand right in which caused me to be stuck. Eventually I was freed but the funny thing about that is that my brother, who was there when it happened, recalls that memory differently. He says it was him who got his hand stuck in the elevator and that too me just seemed absurd. Everytime I think about that type I think maybe he’s right and maybe it wasn’t me. Perhaps my memory was so vivid I somehow put myself in his shoes and just recall what it must have felt. In the article they talk about how sensations or emotions can sometimes be false when recalling a memory. I believe that they said that some of the participants didn’t recall it until it was somehow brought up and they would “lie” because they were convinced it was true.
    I have never thought that I would rely on technology to remember things but as I see the question, I do realize that often when i’m recording something or taking a picture, my intention is often to grab the moment and look at it later whenever I want. I think it’s kind of funny that I went to see one of my favorite bands play about two years ago, and I could not tell you every song they played but I can sure pull out my phone and the footage will definitely be there.

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  3. I agree with what you have said that sometimes we do filter our memories in order to forget the painful memories we once had. But does that work? Does erasing the memory work? Or what we can do is to face them once and for all and move on in our lives? The question your haves asked in the end, I think in this world we tend to save memories down. In the form of small clips in our phones. Scree shots, photos anything. So, eventually we are saving our memories with the help of technology and is not bad at all.

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